Life is what you make of it


People talk about their life as if it is not a part of them. One tells me "Life is a hell", 
another, "Life is painful" or "Life is beautiful", and so on. When they are telling me that, 
I get the feeling that they are talking about something what is completely out of their control.
It looks as if life takes control over them and there is nothing else than to accept it. However, 
what is really going on here? Why do people let life take control over their time here on earth? 
Why is life hell for the first one and a big playground for another one? Maybe, it is interesting
to stand still at these questions for a few minutes and see what is really going on here. 

Let us start with the people themselves. It is good that all of us are different and that we 
have our own point of view about life. However, many people agree about some points 
and one of those is the question, "What is our purpose here on earth?" Most people do 
not know what they are really doing here. They do not realize they actually have a task to 
fulfil in this life. They feel as if they are lost in a strange world. This earth life is not the 
easiest one, but it is one we need. As I wrote before in another chapter, we are not here 
on this earth only once. We keep coming back regularly. For some people that will be 
soon after they left earth and for others it will take hundreds of years in earth time. 
However, return we will for sure. As I wrote earlier, we are souls that never die and we 
will mostly go into another human body over and over again. Why? Because we have to 
learn to get as far as the soul wants us to get. We need to accomplish the big task, 
which is being part of a big soul world  Namely, the Core the essence of all lives in the 
Universe.

Now back to that one human being who told me this life is a hell! That is the second 
question I wrote above, about having control over life. Life here on earth starts the 
second you are born and you must do everything on your own. The first years, your 
parents will help you as much as possible but after some years you will form your own life. 
You make your own decisions and, consequently, make your own matrix. Mostly you try
to make it as easy as possible for yourself, while hoping that others will do the job for you. 
Indeed, there are others who try to help you, but instead of that they are manipulating
your matrix.

Inside you, there is a soul that is working together with your brain. The brain has to learn 
that the soul knows everything already. How far is your brain willing to learn from your soul? 
It depends whether the brain accepts all this. When it is open for all information, you will be 
able and strong enough to make your matrix. Yes, this is the key. During your whole 
life you should cooperate with the soul, then your brain and body have to learn from 
your soul. When you are so far, you will see that another new life will open. A new life? 
Yes, a new life will be there.

Let us go back a bit to the last part I wrote, so I can explain some things. The soul is our 
main life. The soul is the source of our lives but it is also a small part of our complete 
existence in the total Universal life. Yes, all of us are a part of each other. We need each 
other to get further. That does not mean that we are here on earth just for needing 
someone! We often think we need him/her, or that we need that to accomplish something. 
Just forget that all we need is just ourselves! Making your own matrix is the key of success 
for your soul in this life. That does not mean we only need our own company, or need to
have control over many people. We do not need to have control over one human life. 
Mostly, we forget we actually do not have control over our own life. People who want to
have control over others, mostly have problems with themselves. They need all those 
people to hide their own shortcomings! The more people they have around them, the 
more difficulties they have with themselves.

Additionally, the second you are born, the one big happy together starts in your body. 
The brain body and soul ought to go further together in this life and so fulfil the task that 
has to be done. This specific task, with this specific body and this specific brain! It is the 
most difficult part in life to get those three working together. The most problems will occur 
in this simple part of being together. The soul has all the power, the brain can handle a little 
bit of that power, and the body is that piece of flesh and blood that should carry out all 
the actions. That main part of our existence is the motive of all writings and sentences, 
which are made about life. When you see a life as hell or as a difficult one, it is you who 
makes it so! Yes, you and nobody else!

Now, we go to see life from another side. I will show you why perhaps this life is hard 
for you. I already explained the difficulty of the first coming together of your body brain 
and soul. This coming together is not an easy task for the soul, which comes into your 
body mostly around 5 months before birth. During that time, the soul works hard to get 
familiar with its new body. For the soul, it is the time it has to go from working only with 
energy back to working together with flesh and blood. This, with all the limitations the 
human body has. The task for that soul has already began, because it should find out if 
the body  it chose will be a good one to fulfil its task. After a short period, the soul the 
brain and the body are standing together for the next task of this life. That is to get the 
planned job done. The brain does not know what kind of job that is either. The body 
does only what it gets as information. The task is only known by the soul. That soul should 
work with the human brain, which is slow and old fashioned, with millions of limitations! 
However, the soul knows the way to go and to convince the brain what is good for both 
of them. The first years in life, normally everything goes well. But, the more the outside 
world encroaches, with its rules and its limited way of seeing the world, the more the 
human body and brain get problems. The brain has a hard time to filter all this negative 
information and more and more it will go its own way (ego). Namely, the way of 
self-destruction. Yes, self-destruction. Because the path you should go is moving away. 
Then you come at a point when you do not see the source and cannot see a clear 
path to go. Feelings are fading away, because the brain does not have enough power 
to manage all these things together. That is also the reason why there comes a point 
when the brain also tries to get rid of some parts of its own body by making them 
unusable (sick). You will think now, "why doesn't the soul help them?" Good question. 
But there is the main point of all our problems: When the brain goes its own way while 
the feelings are fading away there is no entering point for the soul to help that person. 
The body is soul dead! The body that came as three parts: Soul Brain and Body are 
now falling apart. What you will get is a brain that is acting like mad, a body that is 
falling apart and a soul that is waiting until there is an entrance into that mess, so it 
can restore everything. Yes, restore! If the soul gets one small entrance again into 
that human life, it can restore the whole body. It has the power and the ability to clean 
up the mess and to start over. Why? Because the soul needs to accomplish the task 
it came for into that body.

So far, the soul's power and the task it has. Now that you know more about the soul 
body and mind, we go over to the main question: how can you make your own life? 
All the talking and writing how and what you should to do are mostly written with 
billions of words. You can make your own life. That one rule is the key of all writing 
and talking. It is impossible, it is unfair, it is… and so on. These words make us 
dependant on others. That is what they want, because these people simply want to 
have control over us, control over everybody and everything! There is no control. 
All the control is what you believe in and what you let happen to yourself! There are 
no others. There are only you, your body and soul. The body can do everything by 
itself and does not need anything. By believing that you are dependant on others, 
you no longer exist! Yes, you are not there anymore, because you give yourself away! 
As you know, you and your soul should accomplish something. Perhaps you think 
others will help you to do that, but NO, others will not and can't help you with that. 
What others possibly do is push you to another path, trying to get you out of balance. 
Alternatively, by the so-called working together with you, they slow down your own task. 
Perhaps you let them be there because you are lazy and think they will do it for you! 
Wrong! It is you who should do it!

Now about that point of your terrible life. I wrote before that you are the one who 
makes this life a terrible life. Why? Because YOU make your own life. It is you who 
makes your decisions. You go your own path and you think you are the one who is 
God!! Yes you!! You are the one who forgets the most important part in your body; 
YOUR SOUL!
You do not listen to it, you do not believe in it and you are not willing to work together 
with it. For example: Everything I am writing here is not coming from my brain. 
The brain is too simple to write this all. The information for these chapters is coming
 from my soul. By listening to my soul, more and more information comes into my brain 
and the brain sends this to my hands to write it down. Listening to your soul will give 
you the opportunity to learn and see things you thought never existed. The soul is, for 
a human brain, so mighty and so complicated we cannot understand it. Now, we will
look at it from another side: The soul is energy and has all the energy it needs for all 
situations that will occur. That energy will never be lost, so the soul will grow all the 
time and will get the help of its own energy. That energy has no body, no form and no
limitations. Because there are no limitations, that energy can do everything. Oh yes, 
there we are and what about the soul? Will it help us when we are in trouble? Man oh 
man, people, you don't get it! Our human body is one of the simplest life forms there is. 
We are a fraction above the animal world and a little bit more above the plant world. 
The human body is just a simple mechanism we live in. We have a brain and that simple 
brain can block the way the soul needs to help us. The soul can go into the brain when 
it is blocked. No problem. But the brain will be not able to feel it, or work with the 
information it gets from the soul. Besides that,  the brain is wasting its time by blocking 
all information. The soul is so that it will not waste any energy in a foolish brain. 
The second we are opening ourselves again, the soul can go on.

Energy makes you as powerful as you want. 99% of all people are working with the 
wrong energy. They call it negative energy. Negative energy is everywhere in our body 
and around us. We cannot do all these things we do, without knowing that we do not learn 
and do not accept. Yes, all are negative energy. All that talking about sickness and pain 
is negative. Fighting with people, argueing with them, is also negative energy. STOP. 
Here we are at that point you make out of your life one in the middle of hell! 
That hell you create yourself! Yes it is you who went through a path which is not the 
right one. It is you who tried another one. All these things are YOU. Do you see the 
point now what is going on here? You in your own life have made decisions which 
brought you in this situation. There are people who are telling us this is "KARMA". 
Give it a name I see it like we are getting out of control and taking the wrong path.

It is right we cannot control things and so things keep happening. Just see it more as a 
learning process and see after that incident what and how you reacted! Start now and 
when it is something unpleasant get over it as soon as possible. If it is a nice one enjoy it! 
In the world of energy there is no time there is no beginning and no end. There is a fraction 
of energy you should work with and you can do it as long as or as short as you want 
because….  What is time? Energy everything you see is energy you can try to see its pixels 
as a light or as the matrix. Energy is a pure source and what we do is spending billions to
find the source of life. We forget we have already the answers inside of us. Energy try to feel
the energy but more important try to listen to that energy and work with it. We humans are not
able to manipulate this energy and we are just in the beginning to explore it. So do not waste 
your time and break down your brain trying to understand it. But work with it and listen to that 
energy that has only one path and that is the path of health and understanding. You will see 
you are able to make from your life a life like one in paradise.

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