CHILDREN Part 2


Most of us have children. They will come naturally from two people in pure love. 
You should help them from the day of birth until the day you leave this life. Love your 
child's acting all the way. As parents, be there for your child in good and bad times.

This small introduction should be a normal life for children and their parents. 
But sadly enough, it is not always like that and it is just an idle story. The real stories 
are completely different!

Let us go to the first line: "Most of us have children". That is mostly so, but sometimes 
one does not want or cannot have children, because of different reasons. Firstly, 
because of eating poisoned food, we have problems getting children, or getting healthy 
children. Our body is completely poisoned and therefore many people are unable to 
get children. Secondly, we have a group who love others of their own sexes. 
Man loves man, woman loves woman. This seems to be more a phenomenon, than a 
real need by these people. I do not disagree with them, but in the last years, it is 
growing fast. It looks like these people only look for extra attention by doing so! 
The identities of these people are sometimes completely gone. They don't know what 
is going on with themselves. It goes so far now, that they let themselves be operated 
and in that way, change their identity. That is something really sad, because your soul 
has chosen to be in that body, as a man or as a woman. Therefore, their life is out 
of control. The same is happening with people, who do some "lifts", trying in that way, 
to be a perfect human being. It is now getting to a phase, that there no longer is any 
respect for the body that the soul has chosen. This will get so far out of hand, that many
lives will be wasted for their soul. Thirdly, there are people, who believe that it is no 
longer responsible to have children and put them on this earth. We need children to 
go further in our own life. Raising children is one of the main tasks in life. The soul 
needs a body to fulfil its task. Without a human body, most of the souls cannot go on 
growing.

Second line: "They will come naturally out of  two people in pure love". This is a huge 
problem, right now here on earth. Many people do not really love each other any more. 
The love, which they think is real love, is no more than a "desire". They long for another 
body, yearn to have sex and want to dominate somebody else. With them, pure love is 
rarely known and so we will get a product (our own child) that is made by lust without love. 
That explains also more clearly the people who find their lust by their own sexes.

Then we come to our third line: "You should help them from the day of birth, till the day 
you leave this life". The first days, there may be help and understanding from their parents. 
Then, we come to the stage that we go back to make money and fame. By that time, 
the children will have been taken away to a day-care centre. Many children, who come
in this world are born out of two human beings, who are very selfish. These children will 
soon go to a day-care centre, all days of the week. This happens soon after the day of 
birth and as a consequence, they see their parents only at night! These children will be 
raised by others, lost in a big world, missing the love of their parents. Most of these 
children have either a mother or a father, and don't know, what a real family is like. 
Drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, and so on, turn these children into a product of this society. 
These children do not get the real help they need, there is no time for that. There is so 
little time for sitting and listening to them. Mostly, the parents are demanding and the 
children have to do what the parents tell them to do. Unfolding their own life is not possible, 
because you are not there as parents. The soul seems to be caged where it cannot grow. 
Therefore, we will bring forth young human beings, who do not know how to handle situations.

There is our fourth line: "Love your child's acting, all the way". As I wrote lately, we do 
not listen, we demand. There is so little true love, because so many parents themselves 
do not know what true love is! Be there, take a break and listen to the problems of 
your child. Can this possibly be fixed during your daily work? There is no time and time
is money, as they say.  Do you also think, making time for your child, is a waste of time? 
Later you will see how that same child will react when you have a problem yourself, and 
you want to talk about it!  "Sorry mom, sorry dad, I have no time, I must leave now", 
will then be their answer. You will get back what you have sown in their childhood. 
You will be lonely most of the time, for the rest of your life. Your problem will be the 
same one that your child will have later on. No time, no pure love.

Now, we come to the last line of this chapter: "Be there for your child, in good and 
bad times". That is the most crucial point in everybody's life. Standing by the person 
you really love. When there is a problem it will be a world problem for your child. 
You should be there for them day and night. Because, at that moment, there is 
nowhere else to go. They cannot see a way out, so you should take the time and 
listen to and talk with them, show them what you would do in such situation. 
Mostly, just listening is enough. By talking about it, they will find their own way out. 
However, you should be there, otherwise, they will find their way out in the street. 
That is not an ideal solution, is it? You should feel what is going on, observe your 
child's actions and ask him what is going on. That is very important. Then he 
knows there is somebody who really cares for him. The kid should get the feeling 
that "I can make mistakes, because I have to learn, but I know my parents will be 
there to help me when I cannot find a way out". That is very important for a child. 
Communication that is what they need. Do not only talk; listening is much 
more important.

So you see now there is a lot going wrong at this moment on earth. Children are
born because of lust. There is no love for the children and that endless "no time", 
which you tell them day and night. You constantly demand, instead of listening to
them. These are the main points you should change. When you decide to have 
children, start to let them be born in pure love. Let these children not be mistakes 
or small accidents, but be pure love by people who love each other with their 
heart and soul. Do not forget that you need to spend time with these children for
the rest of your life. Make time for them and let the thoughts about money and 
matter go. Also, try to be together as two parents. Be there for each other, so together 
you can be there for your own flesh and blood. Do not interfere all the time in the 
children's life; they need to experience their own life. Just be there and when you see
it is going wrong, be there for them when they ask for help. The first year the children 
depend on you and need all the love and warmth you can give. Make that time and 
be there for them. Later, when they come home from school, be at home so you 
can talk about how it is going. If there are problems, you can listen and help them 
solve that problem. Always be positive and avoid, when possible, negative energy
to come into your children. Later, they will get enough obstacles to solve by themselves.
In the first years they must to learn the difference between positive and negative energy. 
Give them the opportunity to learn in their own way. They will be fine, because their soul 
knows what it has to do.

In short:
- Start with true love
- Love your children, your own flesh and blood.
- Be there day and night.
- Listen and do not demand, only when really needed.
- Let them know you are there for them, your whole life.

Finally yet importantly, true love will give the world and the people around you all the 
power and positive input they need.

(BR070140)